David had a husband who was more effeminate and David was more the guy in the relationship. That made me horny a bit….which was strange.Īdmittedly, I never really discussed sex with a gay man. We talked about food, tennis, restaurants and he told me about his husband. He lived in Palm Beach, not far from where I lived. He said “Do you mind if I sit?” I told him “No, no, just don’t buy me anything.” He laughed, and said “That’s a deal.” He sat down, ordered his own food and we started chatting.ĭavid told me he was gay. I sat at my place at the bar and went back to ordering dinner and returning emails. I gave him my name, told him I’m here on business and I slid my way out of the conversation. I thanked him and asked “Do I know you?” He smiled, and said “Hi, I’m David, we don’t know each other but you are the best dressed at the bar, so here’s to you.” He held up what appeared to be a martini and I toasted. Now this guy was forcing me to be cordial. I sorta just wanted to check my emails, have dinner and go to sleep. I am truly not into people buying me anything. So, I went over to thank him and tell him it’s not necessary. I figured maybe he was another lawyer or someone I knew. He picked up your tab.” I looked down the bar and thin man in his 50s with dark brown hair, with some grey waved. As he brought it over, he said, “That man wanted to buy you a drink. I was tired and asked the bartender for the menu. So, I sat at the end of the hotel bar, ordered an Old Fashioned and started going through work emails. It was a Friday night and the restaurant was busy as was the bar. It was the Alfond Inn, not 5 star, but nicely appointed and quaint. I was staying at a nice hotel in Winter Park. After all, I had to drive in the morning to get home West Palm Beach. I had no plans to do anything the evening after my depositions, other than have a nice dinner at the hotel bar and hit the hay early. I am a lawyer, and my business there was the typical…long depositions and back to a nice hotel. Last week I kissed my wife goodbye and traveled to Orlando for business. I have been married for 15 years to a woman and never questioned that until a recent business trip. I am masculine and have never considered myself attractive to anyone but women.